“I was so stupid! How could I not see it, it was right in front of me, hah! I was so blind my God! how could I be so damn foolish as not to realize it…” those are words we have become all too familiar with its like a crack in the wall we see it every day and we ignore it, and when the house finally collapses we start regretting and thinking back how we could have, or what we should have done.
Pointers are always there throughout our live they are those lights that tell us stop, wait or go ahead, the outcome of the what we choose is what really counts at the end of it all.
A man living a dissatisfied life went on and on about how he is uncared for, unloved, underpaid, misunderstood always whining and complaining about how life has been hard for him. looking back to the time he was complaining he notices that the signs were always right there, he broke the rules and the consequences followed suit, he knew it was a bad idea getting involved in shady business, he had the opportunity to skip that secretly arranged date while he was hurting and vulnerable, the key was stuck for a few seconds at the door, he tripped and almost fell while getting into his own house with the lights on…the signs were numerous but he ignored all of them choosing to go with what’s popular in his mind, the sayings of age that are most times used only to justify our wayward ways, used to sugarcoat lies that they may look like truth.
Lies like ‘you can’t stay true to one partner all your life’ are manufactured by people and are quickly taken in by others and it becomes a way of life, what happens to the rest of the people who do not think so? And what is so wrong about being one of those few?
Most of our heart desires stem from greed and selfishness, if ever you find something good in your life and desire to keep it with the wrong intent – like jealousy- or plain old fashioned selfishness then it’s bound to cause you distress every now and again and maybe just maybe you will loose it to someone who will not suffocate it with negative emotions.
Popular belief in this fast changing world has clouded our judgment and distorted our thing we are now in the age of stereo type thinkers, “our life is – because someone said- it is,” in the world today people are living oblivious of the fact each person was created a unique being and each person has the right to think independently believe in what they choose, create their own tradition, their own custom – live their own life- for goodness sake.
My life doesn’t have to end just because its showing signs like yours, am not you, you choose to do nothing or something that didn’t work for you, I choose to do it differently I choose to be aware of my world my surrounding and my circumstances, I choose to create my own path, walk to my destination in my life.
The only thing we should always take from this life is the lessons learnt from experiences of great people their failures, mistakes and hardships and not forgetting the attributes that made them great.
I have tried searching for one great person who has made a remarkable impact on the world, which actually followed popular belief, if you know of one please; feel free to let me know in the comment box. The world’s notion of reality came from an ignorant and weak minded person who unfortunately was give audience to a freely receptive yet ignorant people who have spread this disease far and wide.
According to some people reality is…’there is no way a man can be faithful,’ ‘there’s no love without money,’ ‘in any circumstance, the end justifies the means,’ one cannot become rich by purely engaging in honest business,’ and may more distorted truths, as humans we like to go with whatever seems easy and does not hurt our ego and most of all what we can benefit from personally and justify it if it is deemed wrong by anyone else and it gets even better if we can convince a few people to back us up.
When all is said and done you are responsible for what goes on in your life, you choose to be submissive to the world and its corrupted mindset you go down the popular path, you choose to make your own path and be the example that life is what you believe, you can make it, and that when choosing what kind of life to lead it’s a personal affair and no one has power over your thought. You can make your own reality.
Read the signs, don’t go through life taking things for granted take every of opportunity to do things differently, leave the preconceived ideas none of those who began that thought pattern is smatter or better that you, the great men and women ignored the and look at them now even when they’re gone there memory lives on. Never will this world build a statue for a critic. The world doesn’t need them the same way it doesn’t need their thoughts or their so called reality
…to be continued…
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